Unnecessary Genderisation

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Mental health is not gendered. Gender does not define how a person feels.

There are many problems in our world, and one of them is mental health. Another is the way in which every little things is gendered by so many people.

Clothing. Toys. Words. Objects. Furniture. Jobs. Hobbies. Sports. Gym equipment. Food . . .

Why? Why does everything seemingly need to be categorised by gender?

Men vs women. Women vs men. Non-binary and trans people facing discrimination . . . I am tired of all the hate. There is no such thing as a 'girl or boy toy'. There is no job 'for girls' or 'for boys'. Objects do not have a gender, nor do hobbies, sports, or furniture. Gym equipment is for everyone.

People need to stop applying gender to every single thing that exists. Stop worrying about other people's gender, enjoy your life, and let others enjoy theirs in peace.

There needs to be an understanding that attributing femininity and masculinity to everything does not help anyone, not even the people doing so. It gets us nowhere.

What is the strangest thing you've heard gendered? Let me know in the comments.

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